This year marks my 40th year in veterinary practice.
I am humbled and grateful for this incredible journey I’ve been blessed to share with clients, patients, colleagues and like minded people worldwide who share a passion for people, pets and the planet.
Where it began…
I incarnated KNOWING I wanted to be a veterinarian. I only played with stuffed animals, never dolls. I rescued injured animals, taking them to a local veterinarian who gave me nursing instructions and the medicine (always for free). In elementary school kids brought me their sick pocket pets and with the aid of this wonderful veterinarian, I helped these pets recover. Before leaving for college I worked for a small animal veterinarian, an equine veterinarian and I became the youngest and only female EMT 1, all before I was 18 years old.
During my first 2 years of college I worked on an ambulance as an EMT 1 and went on to become the first and youngest female paramedic in the state of Fla. The passion for emergency medicine has stayed with me my entire veterinary career, only I directed it to animal emergencies.
After graduating veterinary school, I worked in a 5 doctor practice, doing fulltime day medicine and emergency shifts nights and weekends. I then took a position running an emergency clinic and did “relief work” at various practices during the day.
2 years after graduating veterinary school I felt ready to open my own practice. I wanted to come into a small community that I could grow with and be a valuable member of. Opening a business in my late 20’s was expensive and risky. My mom (not a risk taker) tried to talk me out of it. But it was my dad who gave me the “courage to try”. He said “you can never fail if you have given it your best. The only failure comes when you never try, you never take the calculated risk. Failure is simply an opportunity to grow and find a better way to succeed.”
As I reflect back, I see the Divine influence guiding me. The experiences, the opportunities, the road blocks, the people and the pets and how I chose to perceive it all and respond, all lead to who I am today. I NEVER could have imagined being a speaker, a leader in industry transformation or participating in developing cutting edge solutions for the veterinary world.
These first 40 years have exceeded my expectations. They have been filled with challenges and successes, laughter and tears, growth and improvement. In every moment I can see the Divine wisdom gently (sometimes with a big kick in the rear) guiding me and supporting me.
As I enter my next 40 years, there is no slowing down. I feel more energized, more passionate, and more committed to making a difference for people, pets and the planet than ever before.
I want to give gratitude to:
Every fur, feathered and scaled patient that I was honored to serve.
To all the pet guardians, even the “one star” reviews, because the contrast helped me to be more laser focused on those I was meant to help.
To all my mentors who shared their knowledge and gifts
To the support staff that make what I do possible on a day to day bases
To my daughter Alyssa, whose love, support, skill and encouragement allows me to be the biggest and best expression of myself.
In celebration of my 40 years in veterinary practice, I want to share my top 40 lessons I’ve learned about health, resilience, business, and the power of continually evolving…
Lessons I’ve Learned… So Far:
1.Your patients are teachers. Every animal has something to teach you if you’re willing to listen.
2.Holistic care is the future. Western medicine alone can’t solve every problem. Integrating alternative therapies is key.
3.Veterinary practice is about more than medicine. It’s “family”. Building relationships with pet parents and guiding them through their pets’ health journeys.
4.Every case is unique. Never assume two animals are the same, even if their symptoms look similar.
6.Stress impacts everything. Animals feel stress too, and it affects their health. Learn to manage it to achieve the best outcomes.
7.Puppies and kittens aren’t the only ones who need care. Geriatric care is just as vital, if not more so, as our pets age.
8.You don’t just treat the symptom; you treat the whole animal. Their environment, diet, and lifestyle all play a huge role in their health.
9.Client education is a key part of the health or healing process. The more pet owners know, the better care they can provide. Knowledge is power!
10.Technology can be a game-changer. Embrace new diagnostic tools and treatments, but always remember the value of a thorough physical exam.
11.Burnout is real. Taking care of yourself is essential if you want to be able to care for others.
12. The learning never stops. Veterinary medicine is always evolving. Keep up, stay curious, and never stop learning.
13. Success is measured by your impact. It’s not about how many animals you see, but the difference you make in their lives.
14. Teamwork is everything. A great support staff can elevate your practice and help you provide the best care possible.
15. Trust your instincts. The longer you practice, the more you’ll realize how valuable intuition can be alongside diagnostics.
16. No two days are the same. Embrace the unpredictability—every day brings new challenges and rewards.
17. Perfection doesn’t exist. There will always be cases that challenge you, do your best and push beyond that boundary to better.
18. It’s okay to ask for help. A single doctor practice can be isolating, but seeking consultations with colleagues and specialists creates a support team.
19. Emotional resilience is key. Learning to manage the emotional highs and lows of veterinary practice is a lifelong skill. Know that EVERYTHING happens for your highest and best good.
20. Every pet parent’s journey is different. Be patient, compassionate, and understand that their relationship with their pet shapes their decisions.
21. A belief system is simply a thought you keep repeating. Does not make it right or wrong.
22. Belief systems are acquired from those that influenced us.
23. A belief system that is no longer serving you can be/should be changed to one that supports where you are in life now.
24. Healing happens in the physical, mental and emotional levels
25. Healing takes time. Both animals and people need time to heal, physically, mentally, and emotionally.
26. None of us, including our fur babies, are going to live forever. Be in the moment as much as possible. Lead with gratitude and joy because we don’t know the bigger picture.
27. Compassion is an important skill. Animals can sense our energy. Support their mind and spirit along with their physical body.
28. Quality of life is paramount. Sometimes, making tough decisions for a pet’s well-being means focusing on their comfort and quality of life, not just their survival.
30. Every pet parent is doing their best. Try and understand their perspective, their belief systems and work with them to create a plan that fits for their pet and family.
31. Palliative care is compassionate care. It’s not just about curing; it’s about alleviating pain and providing comfort.
32. Healing is an emotional journey. Both the pets and their families heal on a physical, mental and emotional level and having community is vitally important.
33. Sometimes, letting go is the kindest thing. Euthanasia is one of the hardest parts of veterinary practice, but it’s also one of the most compassionate.
34. We never stop caring. Even after a patient is gone, we remember them and continue to care about them and their families well-being.
Lessons on Veterinary Business & Building a Practice
35. Running a practice is about leadership. Create a supportive and inspiring environment for both staff and clients.
36. Client relationships are the foundation of a successful and rewarding practice career. Trust is built on clear communication and follow through. Set a standard of expectation and meet or exceed it. You can’t please everyone. Some pet parents may only want to hear what they want to hear, and that’s okay. Learn who you can help and who may not be the right fit for your approach. You are not here to help everyone. Know when to let go and move forward.
37. Marketing is part of the mission. Sharing your knowledge and passion can help educate the community and grow your circle of influence.
38. Systems are the backbone. Efficient systems for scheduling, client communication, and patient care allow you to focus on what truly matters – your patients.
39. Be willing to adapt. The veterinary field changes rapidly. Stay flexible and embrace new methods, even when it’s outside your comfort zone.
And some bonus points:
41. Reputation is priceless. Your reputation is your most valuable asset. Protect it by staying true to your values and delivering exceptional care. When others speak poorly about you, conduct yourself in a way that no one believes them.
42. Financial health is key to longevity. Keep a close eye on the financial health of your practice to ensure it can continue to thrive. Money is an energy, the more it flows, the more good you can do in the world.
43. Hire the right people. A great team is critical to the success of your practice and the quality of care your patients receive. Focus more energy on supporting the high achievers and be fast to let go of those who are not meeting expectations.
44. Never stop innovating. The field of veterinary medicine is always evolving. Stay curious, open to new ideas, and committed to making a difference.
Final Thoughts:
When I was younger, I would constantly say, “when XXX happens, or when I receive XXX or I will be happy when XXX. But when I turned 30, I realized “when and then” never happens, the golden egg just continues to move just out of reach. Don’t wait for outside circumstances to line up for you to find your happiness, happiness is in you right now and it has always been within you. Stop looking outside of yourself for answers and know the power to do anything and everything is within you.
Perspective: If life seems hard, remember Thomas Edison when he was inventing the light bulb filament… he reframed his numerous attempts at creating a light bulb filament not as failures, but rather as finding “10,000 ways that won’t work”
I look forward to sharing the next 40 years of my career with you, may they be even more fulfilling and impactful than the first 40 years.
Your journey can be just as rewarding. Whether you’re a pet parent looking to deepen your understanding and care for your furry family members, or a veterinary professional striving to transform your practice and elevate the care you provide, I’m here to help you.
For pet parents, take the Empowered Pet Parent Course to learn how to address chronic conditions in your pet and create a thriving lifestyle for them.
For veterinarians, don’t wait. Enroll in the Transforming Vet Medicine Course. It will truly transform how you approach medicine, creating better patient outcomes and helping us do what we went into this profession to do, relieve pain and suffering while improving quality of life and longevity for our fur, scaled and feathered patients.
A new leash on life starts now, let’s make it pawsitively amazing!!
FurEver Grateful
Dr. Marlene Siegel
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